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A Transformation Story

Jena Chopson

It's funny. When most women are getting ready for their wedding day, they do everything possible to get in the best physical shape for their big day. 

And me? The 3-sport high school athlete with what feels like a lifelong obsession with health & fitness? 

Nah.

In fact, the year of my engagement was probably one of the most UNhealthy years of my entire life. 

I was planning a wedding. While working stupid long hours as a nurse.  And then, as if wedding planning wasn't enough, we decided to put our house up for sale and start searching for our "forever" home. No big deal, right? 

I have never eaten so much fast food, takeout, and restaurant food in my entire life. I quickly ballooned to the heaviest weight I had ever been....ever. And as I spilled over into the "overweight" category on that beloved BMI scale, I earned myself a sit-down chat session with my doctor that I hadn't experienced since my overweight pre-teen years:

Doctor: You've gained weight.

Me: No shit. 

I was stressed to the max. Our financials were out of control. And what's more, I wasn't exactly used to being this uncomfortable in my own skin. I had dedicated myself to being healthy ever since I struggled with anorexia and binge eating in my early teens. You can read more about that here. And then I found myself overweight. Stressed out. Broke as a joke. And maybe homeless (seriously...who buys and sells a house while wedding planning?). 

To make a long story short---a few months after the chaos of buying & selling, the "I dos," the moving, and the new jobs wound down, someone introduced me to workouts I could do at home, in between my crazy nursing shifts. I could do these workouts without throwing on presentable gym clothes and hauling it to the gym. She also showed me how I could make extra income with this gig too. It was divine timing, and I jumped in 110%. 

I lost over 20 pounds and got in the best shape of my life. I would have kicked my own 17-year-old version of me's ass, and wore her prom dress better, too. I finally found ME again, and it felt amazing. 

Seems like the story should end here, right? 

There's one more really important piece to my story: My husband. 

He hates working out. He hates anything that makes him huff and puff. He's a hunter/fisherman type. Activities that get you outside to enjoy nature but don't necessarily get the heart racing. Well....until that trophy deer walks by. ;) 

He rolled his eyes a lot at first when I started my journey with at-home workouts. He was super skeptical about the whole thing. I have to give him credit though--despite his skepticism, his support for my journey was always unwavering. I'll never be able to thank him enough for that. 

I wanted him to go on this journey with me SO badly. After all, he, too had gained weight during our wedding/buying/selling/moving chaos. He ballooned to over 260lbs, officially gaining about 60 pounds since we had first met. We were both out of control. 

I wanted him to get his health back, too. But I couldn't do it for him. You can read more about that specific journey here

Long story short? He came around. And boy, he came around big time. Since deciding to make a change, Doug has lost approximately 75-80 pounds. He's lost a freaking 3rd grader! 

So when Doug posted this picture of us yesterday, it made my heart swell. 

Sometimes we can be so hard on ourselves. Sometimes it's so easy to forget how far we've come. We get so caught up in our daily, small battles that we forget about the war that we've already won. 

I'm sharing all this with you to say that there's a transformation story waiting inside all of us. We all have the power to make a change no matter what our situation, age, gender, finances, etc. All it takes is one decision and a steadfast, consistent commitment to make it happen. 

If we can do it, so can you. 

Do transformation stories like these inspire you? Let me know in the comments. I want to continue to give you stuff that inspires you to live your healthiest, best life. 

And as always, if you're struggling with your health & fitness goals and need help, I'm only an email/message/comment/social media handle away. You know where to find me. 

Cheers to you,

Jena 


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When getting back to routine isn't so routine

Jena Chopson

It's that time of year again. Time when the kids go back to school, parents give a celebratory high fives, and relish in the fact of finally getting back to routine. 

But is it really that simple? After becoming accustomed to a particular summer routine, sometimes it isn't so easy just to hit the brakes and transition to a new one.

Let me be frank--I don't have kids of my own, so I can't speak to this personally. But I do have many friends with children, I have step daughters, and I know a thing or two about switching routines. 

I, myself work nine 12-hour night shifts in a row, then I get 12-14 days off. During those 12-14 days off, I often try to switch back to a "day shift" schedule. This always sounds super simple in theory, until it isn't. My body really gets into that nigh shift routine and when I try to abruptly switch it back, it is met with a LOT of resistance. 

I've spent the last two nights wide awake (despite taking sleep aid before bed) to the point where I've said screw it...and just got out of bed and got stuff done. Seize the moment, right? 

What's my point here? Don't beat yourself up if your back to school transition doesn't go as smoothly as you planned it. It's a course correction for everyone involved and it's going to take time to iron out. Here's my top 5 tips for surviving a tough transition in your routine: 

1.) Expect setbacks. If you go into this knowing there will absolutely be hiccups, you won't be as discouraged when those hiccups actually happen. 

2.) Allow time for the transition to stick. It's probably going to take 1-2 weeks before the dust settles. Be patient and....

3.) Take it one step at a time. You truly can't expect an overnight success. Work on transitioning slowly. Crank back bedtimes 30 minutes at a time, work on preparing 2-3 out of the 5 lunch meals at a time and working your way up to 5, slowly transition back to after school routines. Don't expect to implement everything at once. You'll completely overwhelm yourself and everyone involved. 

4.) Somehow make it fun and roll with the punches. Get creative and see how you can make the transition fun. Delegate am or pm tasks, use a sticker chart or check box chart and reward the kids with a fun family outing on the weekends. Or insert whichever idea sounds fun to you. The more fun you can make something, the better. 

5.) Remind yourself that you matter, too. I feel like back to school time often becomes 100% about the kids. And yes, mostly it is. But you can't give from an empty tank. Make sure you're taking at least 30 minutes a day for you. Whether that is reading a book, exercise, meditation, listening to your favorite podcast, or dancing in your living room....you have to fill your cup before you can give to others. 

The only constant in life is change. We all go through transitions of routines that are met with resistance. I hope these 5 tips can help you navigate through your next transition a little more smoothly. 

To your health! 

XoXo,

Jena 


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When you don't see eye to eye....

Jena Chopson

I get a lot of questions about what to do when you have an "unsupportive spouse" when it comes to your health & fitness journey, or when it comes to your new business. 

Although Doug is doing a workout program with me now, it most definitely has not always been this way. Allow me to show you a picture of what our workout partnership has looked like for 99% of the time we have been together: 

Doug sitting in our front yard propped up with a Miller Lite while I race my 5K. 

Doug sitting in our front yard propped up with a Miller Lite while I race my 5K. 

This is a topic I get really passionate about. Allow me to share a little bit of my story....

I've always been into health and fitness my entire life. Don't make fun of me--I literally have memories of running around the playground at recess as a young child with the GOAL to work up a sweat. Not exactly what most little girls aim to achieve at recess, right? 

Even though I haven't always been healthy (you can read more about that here), being athletic, active, and conscientious about my health has always been a huge passion of mine.  So of course as opposites tend to attract, I wind up marrying a man who basically has zero interest in all of the aforementioned topics. ZERO. 

Let's be honest. I married him this way. I knew the man I was marrying going into this whole thing. Still, I would be lying if I said it didn't sting a little bit every time I headed out for a run, or downstairs to do my workout, alone

This great divide became all the more apparent when I started a business as a health and fitness coach. I'm not going to say he was unsupportive, because to me that means he was basically doing everything in his power to make sure I didn't succeed. He was more, shall I say, standoffish. "Do whatever you want babe, but I think it's all ridiculous." That was a better way to describe it. And even though that's better than being completely unsupportive, it still sucked.  This was a HUGE deal to me and a HUGE passion of mine, and something I was really excited about....and he just wasn't excited.  

So what did I do? You might think I came up with some elaborate plan to bring him over to the "dark side," right? Well, you'd be wrong. You see, you can't change other people. Even when that person happens to be your spouse. The only thing you can do is better yourself and aim to become a better person, spouse, individual, whatever and continue to set the example along the way. 

I had no idea if Doug would ever develop an interest in his own health and fitness, but I always knew that he would have to come to terms with that on his own. If you're in the health & fitness space, you know as well as I do that we cannot force anyone to want to change, they have to want it for themselves first. 

I asked Doug about a week ago, "What was it that finally made you commit to your health?" And he basically responded with, "I was tired of being the fat kid. And I knew it would only bring us closer. So I went all in." That's the Doug version of saying what we hear all too often from people who finally hit their breaking point and are ready to make a change: Enough is enough. Something has to change. 

The key point here is this: If I had given up on him, on myself, on the journey....then he might never have come to these terms. If you feel like you have an "unsupportive" spouse, if you feel like your significant other will never make his or her health a priority, if you feel like you are alone--Don't. Give. Up. 

Stay consistent. Stick with it. Continue to work on and develop yourself. Pray for him or her, for your relationships. And who knows? You may one day be taking sweaty selfies with your spouse after crushing a workout---together. 

Post workout sweaty selfie...aka everything to me <3 

Post workout sweaty selfie...aka everything to me <3 

Relate to this story at all and want to chat more? Feel free to reach out to me, I'd love to talk. 

Xoxo, 

Jena 


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